A life in the Church of England seems an unlikely outcome from such
Roman Catholic beginnings, but he owes that to his family. ‘My
parents were not churchgoers, but they sent me to Sunday School when
I was about four and I stayed with it. In the early years I think
it was just part of the package of life, but there was never a time
when I can’t remember having had some sort of Christian belief.’
Feeling at home in the church, Peter was 18 when he realised he wanted
to take it one step further. He was a student not far from Hampton
Hill at the West London Institute of Higher Education, in Osterley,
now part of Brunel University. ‘As often happens when someone
ends up being ordained, there’s a priest who’s particularly
influential. In my case it was the local vicar, who was also the college
chaplain. He conveyed the importance of the scriptures in a way that
I hadn‘t heard before.’
In 1983, Peter went to Ripon College, Cuddesdon, to train for ordination,
which then happened at the age of 24. His first posting was as curate
in Kenton, Middlesex. ‘It was a little strange when I started
wearing black and people’s perceptions of me changed immediately.
I think that was the greatest challenge for me - being identified.’
Peter moved to Fleet, Hampshire, in 1990, before becoming vicar in
Northwood Hills in 1993, and four years later at South Dulwich, before
becoming Vice Dean and Canon Pastor at Wakefield Cathedral in 2005.
It might then seem surprising that he would want to replace the pomp
and circumstance of a cathedral with parish life once again. ‘I
do not believe that the church should be seen as a career. There is
a proper place for ambition, but I’m not sure that the ordained
ministry is the right place for it. I had 18 years in parish ministry
and decided it was time to move from Dulwich after eight and was looking
to do something different for a time. ‘What I think I discovered
was the things I enjoyed doing most are things about the parish, and
part of my Canon Pastor’s role was a lot of that, but at the
same time not being in a position to lead a Christian community, to
walk with it in faith, to grow with it, to help it to develop, to
enter into visions already there and to see where they take us - and
actually I miss that greatly. ‘One of the things about cathedrals
that you do get are occasions like memorial services where the cathedral
becomes the focal point for the whole community. But this is just
the icing and not the cake and one can’t just live on the icing!’
Peter was attracted to Hampton Hill by the challenges. The parish
profile explains that theologically and spiritually St James’
is within the liberal catholic tradition and the PCC was seeking an
approachable priest with a happy disposition – someone who is
a good listener and is able to relate to all sorts of people and their
problems, whatever their age. Young people and children especially
were identified as important for the future growth of the church.
Peter agrees. ‘I believe a parish communion is about bringing
everybody together, right across the age range. It can be a celebration
of all those different people and we should just be grateful that
churches still have children in them. I want to do all I can to support
them. ‘The parish profile gave a sense of there being practical
tasks that people wanted to carry out, but also the PCC was concerned
about having a wider vision and those two together are very appealing.
‘Being familiar with the area helped too. I was brought up in
Hanwell, so there is a little bit of it that will feel like coming
home. My aunt and uncle live in Hampton. My father was brought up
in Fulwell Park Avenue, just across Fulwell golf course, so there
are bits of familiarity. When I walked down the road from Fulwell
Station to come to St James’ for the first time, I thought I
can live and work in this kind of area. There are connections.’
Hopefully Peter’s beloved fox terrier Paddy will like the area
too.
And having arrived, what are his priorities? ‘The important
thing for me in the first few months is to get to know as many people
as possible and to find out what’s going on here and not to
presume. I remember a bishop once saying to me, “When you go
somewhere new see what God has already put in people’s hearts
before you get there”, which I think is very good. ‘This
isn’t to say that there won’t be things that I’ll
want to ask questions about, to challenge and change - but the greatest
challenge for everyone is the change of personality - it’s not
so much about what I do, it’s about who I am. So I want to adopt
an approach that is very much about listening to people. In these
months I will welcome comments and observations and I hope people
will always feel that I’m there for them to talk to.’
Much of Peter’s philosophy stems from his experiences as a teenager.
‘I think for the whole of my life I’ve seen the church
decline and when I was ordained I was determined that any church I
was involved with would not decline. ‘The church I went to as
a child until I was 18, where I was baptised and my parents were married,
closed. Having seen a community die I know it can happen and I don’t
want to see that. ‘There’s that image in the book of Ezekiel
(37:1) about The Valley of Dry Bones, about making dry bones live
and flesh and sinew grow, and I’ve always wanted to say, “Well
how can dry bones live and does it have to be like this?”
‘I’m concerned about the future and I wonder what we can
do to make sure there are some churches in a few years time. I would
be sorry if there was no longer a place for churches which offered
an ordered liturgy, formal thoughtful preaching and a range of music,
both traditional and contemporary. I believe we need all of this because
people are different. It’s about looking for the points of connection
with people’s personal spirituality, so I guess it’s taking
the old and looking at what there is now and asking how they connect.
‘If Christ is all in all then there must be a connection and
it’s a question of looking at what that is and asking if the
only way to do it is the kind of contemporary Evangelical way, or
is there actually something more? I think there is something more.’
Evangelical churches, such as St Stephen’s in Twickenham, attract
larger numbers of young people. Should St James’ follow suit?
‘I’ve learnt a great deal from evangelical churches and
they obviously seem to be in the ascendancy at the moment, but I don’t
think it is the only answer. ‘I come from people who want a
different sort of spirituality, that’s perhaps more contemplative,
more reflective, and is as much rooted in silence as in speech. ‘If
one looks at the church in Western Europe (the only place in which
it’s in decline) it’s much broader than just what’s
happening in our own backyard. I think we need to have a wider vision
and not to get too despondent.
The congregation at St James’ still represents a minority of
residents in the parish, but Peter plans to help the church to reach
out to more people. ‘I think schools in the parish are the natural
centres for the community - indeed I have already been asked to do
an Easter service at the junior school. If the church is seen to be
visible in the community at least people may feel it is something
for them as opposed to people who keep it as a kind of private chapel
for themselves.
‘Many are drawn to the church at certain times in their lives,
whether it be Christmas, or in time of war or after a disaster, and
my hope is that the church will try to connect better with these people
and inspire them to become regular worshippers. A warm welcome to
newcomers always helps, as do friendly service papers and sermons
that don’t try to be too clever, but at the same time offer
some sort of challenge. I always try to think what there is for people
to take away so that they will want to come back again. We need to
look at what sort of literature we have; offering people who are new
to the church some way in and explaining who we are.
‘The good news is that worldwide religion is not declining.
A lot of people blame religion for the world’s problems. Religious
terrorism is certainly not justified. But it’s a big mistake
to blame religion for all the world’s wars. Unfortunately faiths
can be distorted and people can believe their point of view is an
absolute truth. They may even consider worthless those who disagree
with them. For Christianity, this is a corruption of what we are supposed
to be about. ‘I don’t see in Christ someone who is intent
on castigating and rejecting in that way. Rather, he wants to see
people’s lives lived fully and to be transformed, which is very
different from wanting to see those lives ended. It’s about
being life-enhancing rather than life-denying.
‘I think an effort has to be made to connect with everyone and
Christ always offers the possibility of new life and new beginnings.
An example is further marriage after divorce. ‘I know some would
argue that the fact that in the Church of England divorcees can now
remarry is a watering down. But I wouldn’t see it as such, because
are we saying that divorce is the only thing you can never forgive?
New beginnings can be expressed sometimes through a further marriage,
rather than by saying “You can’t”, which means we
shut the door on people. ‘Some people would see this as very
liberal, but to me it’s just applying the fundamental principle
of how Christ is, in new circumstances. If you forgive and allow people
to find their own new life in each circumstance it’s not always
easy, but I think that’s the challenge.’
Peter joins St James’ at the most important time of the year
for the church. Does he think the message of Easter has been lost
on some people in the 21st century? ‘Yes, I think so. More people
come to church at Christmas than Easter. Perhaps people connect more
easily because of the carols and the image of the baby in the manger.
It’s more difficult when you’re talking about death and
resurrection, but there is still the common theme of new life, new
hope and new possibilities as we grow and change.’
Welcome ‘home’, Peter.
Source: The Spire Magazine, March 2007